What solution does she suggest in order to be transparent with you to allow her to go to these conferences.

Wish I had a good answer. How many does your W want to go to? Maybe You can compromise on limiting the number per year?

H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...