Hi DDJ, I think the most important thing is that you can live with deciding to file and feel it is truly the right choice for you (ie: not reactionary etc.)

I chose not to file and am glad of that - However, we are all in different places and that's fine.

Just be sure you are truly at peace with your decision and won't have 'what ifs' further down the road.

Whatever you decide - good luck to you xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus