Huddy, I have already pulled the D cord, I have proclaimed that is what I need out of this. Not sure that I should stop now. Like I said I never wanted any of this. I feel that I can never trust her again, I cant believe her at all. I found a letter from Rob, and texts from Lee. She said that Lee goes by Rob and the Rob guy I caught her with was just a coworker..total coincidence. She also said that $195 charge on the CC to a concert ticket web site was not for a concert but was for some sporting tickets for fathers day. I never received these tickets or proof of purchase. She continues to lie, even after I told her I wanted a D. I don't want a D but cant live with the lies any more, I don't think she will quit, she has been doing it off and on for a LONG TIME.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
