DDJ,

I'm not sure you want to answer these since you didn't mention them, but just in case. Does your WW still live in the house? Has she shown any reaction to the D moving forward? What do you think you would do if she came to you with sincere remorse, wanting to do anything to save M?

You've gone through hell in your situation, and I'm glad to see that you are finding peace. I would disagree with anyone that says you shouldn't move forward with D if that is what you want/need, as long as your ready to actually move on, and it sounds like you are.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized