Never GRL ! I always love your posts. And I have always loved how you express your opinions without holding back. I was referring more to the attorneys.
Sometimes it's nice to have someone help me out with the "Is it me ?" Question. I know from experience and from friends, that when that is a constant question, that there is a lot of toxic behaviors Occuring. Can every individual in a relationship spew out incidents?
Sometimes I worry that it's easy to side with me when I talk about some incidents. But is it far? Am I being fair?
Sometimes I want to protect him and blame it all on me, sometimes I blame it all on him and and then worry that I am villifying. It's hard when there are no clear cut answers.
Is this just phases of marriage or is there such a thing as a healthy relationship/ marriage?
That is a good idea to get a neutral opinion. I will look into what might be available to me.
