Originally Posted By: DDJ
In a nutshell, my STBXWW has no respect for me. If she has no respect, then she does not care about me. If she does not care about me, then she does not love me. No-one cheats on someone that they respect, care about or love. I think that these 3 basic things are a requirement for a happy marriage


I agree with all of this. But I still fail to see how the best path forward is divorce as opposed to working to rebuild those things.

Either way, I wish you good luck.