I also realised that I came into the marriage broken. I knew what i stood for but I never stood for anything. Whats happened to us can either be perceived as something that can pull us down or an opportunity.
I've discovered my real purpose, to help people. I'm going to start my honours in psychology and aim to go all the way to doctorate. I believe that we all have a purpose to help people with our God given talents.
We must also be thankful for the things that we have in our lives and the things that we MOST IMPORTANTLY don't have. If you asked me 3 months ago, would i sacrifice my W to find myself, I would say YELL NO. Today, I will not blink an eye.
I had mixed emotions when I got the final divorce papers today, i was not sure if it was ELATION or JOY. Its really all about YOUR perspective - alter your reality or lower your expectations.
Sorry if it comes out preachy...
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
