- We send OM an email underlining that she is working on fixing things with me, and if he ever does or suggests anything more than friends that she will break contact completely
It does not work that way. Sending OM a letter stated like this ^^^^^ would be laughable to him. How do you think EA's begin? Here's the bottom line, if she choosing any friend over her H, the MR won't work. It is completely b.s. to suggest they shift from an affair relationship to a friends relationship. In your heart, you surely know it.
A friendship can lead to an affair, but an affair does not lead to a friendship.
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She would allow me to meet OM face to face (this was something I had asked about rhetorically since she keeps saying they're "just friends") - We could hang out sometimes the three of us or double-dating with OM and fiance.
Unbelievable!!
Do NOT play the part of the fool you would be by doing what she has suggested! You need to stop this b.s. right now!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
