Out of In house S- Start of two homes (10)

[vise82]

Hey,

I picked up kids from school as it is my time with them now. W did not email or text me all day, very unusual. She was at kids soccer. I sat next to her but not much was said to each other. I just talk to the kids now. She asked for kids swimming stuff and said to the kids she is going to the old street to visit and swim. I did not need to know that. I have no plans to ever drive on that street again.

I put the kids to bed. they were acting up again. This time I asked in a calm voice how many times do I have to ask you to do something? S7 listened and did as requested. S4 we bothering S7 and I had to put him in time out as he was hitting him. After he was playing by himself away from his brother and was doing great so I gave him positive word that he was doing great play nicely.

This morning the baby sitter shows up and I left, no kids were up yet.

I have a consultation with a professional organizer today. See how that goes. Going to be hard to justify paying to organize my house, but I do need it.

I see this thread is almost done, so the plan going forward is more about me and kids. I can see that the next thread may be my last as I cant see things changing with the MR. I have even been thinking that It might have to be me to file for D just to help me move forward.

One day at a time.