Kyle, if you dont want a D, then don't file. Why are you doing things you don't want to? Why do you put so much into what ypur W is thinking or feeling? She doesnt know what she wants. She's in a fog.
You're spinning. You have only been posting for a month. Your sitch is new. You're in a fight or flight mode.
You're not detached. If you're detached, you would file D because you want to. And not because you think it is what your W wants.
Why do you think that filing D will give you closure? It won't. You give you closure, Kyle.
If your W is happy to D, then let her! Why are you mindreading her and then doing the dirty work for her? If your crystal ball is accurate, then she should be filing soon, shouldn't she?
I would advice you to change another ic. I don't understand why your IC would advise you to file for D.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
