Hi Coffee, sorry you're going through this I too am 3 months in and it's been the longest 3 months of my life.
I'm interested to read your thread as I am also planning on having this conversation with my W in a few days. As you say, I love me wife with all of my heart and D is not what I want in the slightest but I need to have some closure and try to take some steps forward.
Did you get what you was looking for from the conversation? I imagine it's a sense of taking some control back.
