Thanks! Your advice sounds eerily like what I tell myself, but it really helps to hear it from someone besides me.

I'm sending good thoughts for you and your daughter.

Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16