To be clear...Yes I told her that I contacted a lawyer. And I also told her that I will open an account that my check will go into, she will need to share the bills with me before I pay for half of them. She said she doesn't need a lawyer but understands that I do, unless she will get screwed. I don't want to screw her over, I just want half of what we built in the last 21 years. I unfortunately will also get half of the debt. Well I said it a couple of times. She was sad but knew it was coming I think. Okay no more R talks, just doing what I need to do now. I know it is time Zuess. You have been a big help in showing me how to get my Ball$ back, slowly but surely. I am doing that. The other big thing you have helped me realize is that life is full of uncertainties. Its a big scary world out there, but I can do this. Thanks man.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
