Gosh, no idea. That is why I am leaning on the "experts"!!!

We are communicating cordially, but formally, about the boys and finances. Pretty much nothing else.

Thoughts?

W:51 M:50
T:19 yrs M: 17 yrs
S15 S11
BD: April 2016 ("too much tension")
Moved out: early June 2016
Filed for D: early June 2016