Losing control, I need to let go (2)

[Coconut]

I am concerned that you may not be ready to make this decision, but it is your decision to make and we will support you in that decision as well.

Why are you saying your going to talk to your W, so you can let her know you want to talk about divorce after she returns? If you want a D, file D, you don't need her approval; unless your hoping she will tell you it isn't what she wants and talks you out of it, in which case, your probably not ready to file.

Either way, please keep posting.