My mistake! I should have said something like "she is a WAW and I don't want the divorce", sorry.

Honestly, even after the filing I talked to her therapist and she indicated something along the lines of "you didn't get to this point in a short time and you will not be able to get out of it in a short time"

Just trying to be respectful for our anniversary. No present, no card....maybe acknowledgement...or nothing???

W:51 M:50
T:19 yrs M: 17 yrs
S15 S11
BD: April 2016 ("too much tension")
Moved out: early June 2016
Filed for D: early June 2016