Thank you Sandi2 you nailed it for me. Yes, her friend wants her to out of one part of the house and into another. I know she does miss the boys, etc. I think those two reasons are equal.
She is not being humble. She is getting more resentful, etc. We do have these fleeting convo's about reconciliation.
So I will continue on the path I have, my GAL is going well. I'm slowly detaching. I really do feel less "attached" and I really do feel like I'm going on with life a little more.
I'll continue to change the dynamics - stick to my convictions and try not to let her eat cake.
I'll make sure the schedule of her visits sticks to what we have previously worked out.
I'll go to the MC but I'm not sure what good it will do if she is not remorseful? Is it worth going to talk about communication, trust, etc?
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017