Hi Kyler. I'm speaking for myself here. Why are you waiting until Tuesday ? If you are sure you want a D then that's your choice. Your a grown man and you get to decide what you want.
How did you get on with the lawyers ? What are you facing re custody and maintenance payments ?
When I and WW told the kids we did it together for the younger two and I just let WW explain as it was her choice the older two. 16 and 19 she told them and I spoke to them after
The kids will cope , not be happy but they will learn to cope You are making a choice and you have obviously considered the kids. The LBS has to be strong throughout this and even though we are struggling with our own emoitions the kids are all important
If you explain your game plan re the talk with the kids on here then the vets will have sound advice for you.
Re talking about the D with W , IMHO it doesn't matter what she thinks this is about you Do you need to speak to her about it ? Maybe getting your paperwork in order would be best and then see how you present it to her
I'm sure this wasn't an easy thing to decide and atleast now you can let go of all that constant analysing of what she saying or doing
My thoughts are with you and I admire your strength , I'm almost two years in to this and I only started the D ( and I'm going very slowly to see if it's what I really want ) a few weeks ago because I'm not sure if it's 100 % the right thing to do. Maybe I need more strength like yourself
