cbtdad,

Everyone is so supportive! I just thought I'd offer up a suggestion.

I've been to several MC sessions and sometimes it can get really nasty. What you can do is use the MC session as an opportunity for a 180. When you walk into the MC's office, after everyone is seated, in a non-threaten manner move toward your wife and start humping her leg. Do that for about 30 seconds, then go back to your seat without saying anything.

I don't know what the results will be, but I'd like to know without actually trying it myself.