Lost at the moment

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I may have messed up a bit last night... I got frustrated and told my WW that I couldn't do this anymore and that I need to focus on moving on and take care of myself. She responded with a lot of anger and emotion. We had a pretty lengthy discussion, and the things I took out of it are:

1) She recognizes her relationship with the OM is not a long term thing and there is no real future with him, but she's unwilling to end it right now.
2) She's afraid of ending up alone
3) She wants more time to work through her feelings and emotions
4) She wants to evaluate things after we get into the new house and things "calm down a bit" (she seems to have a mental hangup on moving into the house, like that will be the thing that allows her to make decisions and move forward)

Maybe it's not as big of an issue as it feels right now, I feel like my telling her that has pushed her away further, but it is helping me mentally focus a bit more at work and I know it will help with my GAL activities to put myself in the position of moving forward with my life whether she is part of it or not.

Any thoughts out there from the vets on if this may have been a huge setback in telling her that?