Wow - not sure what's next. Family counselling went OK. Nothing really happened. He did agree that returning to in house sep would be a bad idea.
W agreed to start seeing the Dr to work on communication and collaboration issues.
After the family session - we did a little talk about moving, expenses, etc and some R talk.
She is ticked that she is paying into a house that her kids don't want her in. Also, that the kids are saying to her I have everything under control and they are fine.
I guess her cake is getting smaller. I don't want her in the house with me, the kids don't need her - that's why she is desperate to see them more. She has her dream job and her beloved community that is giving her pleasure. But, that is it.
I'm starting to rethink the MC as the only reason I would go is to reconcile. I originally pitched it as a way to connect. Now that seems like a bad idea.
I'm going to have to implement better barriers.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017