I have two things I wanted to talk about with you. One of them is that you are such a very busy lady. You know I was like that also. I was working, going to school, keeping a house, taking care of three kids, and was very active in youth organizations.
Now that I am alone and have had the time to sit back and reflect on my marriage and my life in general. I think that what I was doing was looking to replace what was missing in my marriage...the filling of being needed and appreciated.
Of course what I see now is that I needed to dedicate myself to fixing the problems at home. Not looking for something outside.
Of course I'm not saying don't better yourself...goodness you deserve a ton of credit for that, but do think about some of the volunteer work you do. Is there someone you could spin some of it off to?
As for the question of ML with your husband. I have to tell you that toward the end of my marriage, that's what I experienced with my H. It scared me because it hadn't been the way he had been in the past. It seemed to develope over time. It's almost like love making was becoming just sex.
I'm sure there are other people who would have different opions, but for my STBXH and I...that's what it seemed like.
State Flower
"It's not what happens to you, it's what you make of it." Zig Ziglar
