Ok I need true db pro's here . I think I may be back in the db game. I bought the bs of what she was selling at mc. Genuinely thought that she was fine and honest about it .. And about no affairs going on and what not. Basically ruling out her being ww. But that was my assumption not based on any facts or advice from here. She convinced me she was simply out of love and not looking for a new one or checking grass ect. She was juat ready to do what she wanted to do ..
So this evening w txt me to request a separation agreement , not a legal separation but some hokey azz thing we wrote them have it notorized. Not a true legal document and my lawyer said carried very little weight.. She advised to go forward with a legal agreement and start the 1yr time frame.

Well wife wants to keep lawyers out of if and keep it between us. This is the same person who has said she's done with marriage so many times I could make s drinking game out of it. So why no progression to legal separation which I turn is a divorce after the 1yr period. Her proposal is to rotate through house 3dayscon 3days out. So what's the angle here? Cake eating? Plan b? Ducks in row? Not ready for divorce? Affair ?

Feel stupid for believing she was even the slightest bit sincere....


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016