Sandi2 - excellent stuff to think about and for me to watch for.
It's been a real roller coaster on the reconciling. Saturday it may have been a 4 out of 10. Sunday it was a 0 out of 10 Monday it was a 6.5.
I've implemented a strict bedtime for my youngest. That will be a real bell weather 1) to make sure she does not interrupt that routine 2) let's see what she does after - does she want to linger or run back to her place, etc.
I will try and mix it up a little so she does not see coming over as a new routine. Maybe one day I'll take the kids out etc.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017