So sorry SR9 - I know exactly how you feel. I have to tell my W tomorrow that I cannot wait any longer. My emotional bucket is empty. The experts say the best thing to do is to GAL. Hard to do sometimes, I am taking baby steps at this. I did see an MD and got on some antidepressants that help tremendously. It helps me to see things more clearly and have way less peaks and valleys if you know what I mean. Also exercise has helped me to sleep better. I have been dealing with my stitch since May and within the last two weeks I have finally been able to sleep a little bit better. You have to detach, GAL is one way to do this. Find friends to do things with, and try not to exhaust them with talk about your M problems.
I am no vet but just want you to know your not alone, I feel the same.


M 21 years
XW 43yo, me 41 yo
S13
BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient...
End of June - I started the D process.
D final 2/23/17
"He who forgets will be destined to remember"
Eddie Vedder