It's wrong. It's wrong. It's wrong. What she does or doesn't do doesn't change what's right or wrong, and it's wrong for a married man to date.
I'm pretty sure I agree with everything you posted, but this is my mindset all along, even during my weakness and I thought a date wouldn't hurt anything. I knew that was a lie. In 33+ years together I never cheated on her and I will not start now. I'm still married even if I don't wear my ring now.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day