Pathway Change

[RSG]

"There has been no anger towards me, the only emotion she seem to give off or talk about is shame and talk about how she cant believe she has done something so alien to her morales and values! She was angered and disgusted when I friend had an affair years ago!"

WW has a friend at preschool. A couple years ago she told me the H was having an affair with a woman he saw at work, W found out, he refused to stop. Teenage D confronted him in public and was livid. WW was sickened and told her to divorce him. Another friend of WW told her to do what she could to keep the family together.

FF to today. WW has had an affair and hasn't had any remorse yet. The friend who told her to try for her family hasn't said anything to WW, and has even run to WW when I texted her "good luck on your new job." This is a person I respected as a friend of WW, a decent Christian woman who cherished family to a fault. Just not my family I guess.

Point being: They throw their morals out the window for temporary "happiness." I'm glad yours has seen the light. If you want to proceed, you have to put your feelings in a box and can't really let them out too much re the pain you've felt.