Facetime this AM, apparently S woke up at 3AM because he peed in the bed. He hates this feeling, and it takes him a while to get back to sleep. Has always slept well when he's at home with Daddy. I can imagine she screamed at him a few times, since I know she's exhausted. She used to take it out on me, but I'm not there to blame anymore.
She sent a couple pics of him around lunchtime enjoying some waterplay. I've been thinking about cutting out the updates. I will still do it of course, but things won't hit home until August for her. That's when she won't see him daily, as he's been a short walk away from her since he first went to the nursery at her preschool at the age of 3mos. We take him Thursday for a trial day at his new preschool, we both think it's a great fit for him. First day is August 1st, we've pretty much already decided I'd take him to school and she'd pick him up.
I'll be running to the store tonight to get him some milk, snacks, etc and finally cleaning up some stuff around the house. Checked the scale last night to see I've lost 5-6lbs in the last month. Nice! All the walking and cutting down on fast food is paying off. The dog is thinning out also.
Next thing I need to work on: Sandi's advice to show no emotion to WW. Just being cordial but keeping happy around S.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.