Hey Zues, I still read here and there and wanted to say hi. I feel similar to you on D, you aren't alone with viewing it as a murder. Kids movies will do it to me also. Last year inside out and the volcano short wrecked me. Took mine to Finding Dory day before father's day. Should have known I would get emotional also as finding Nemo was me and ex's first date. I remember a flashback during the movie to the original and looked to my left see D5 right where ex would be 13 years prior. But ad you said, feelings come and go.
None of it is fair, but it is life that have to accept and live through as best we can. That [censored] about OM. I haven't ran into OM2 yet as I think she intentionally avoids us meeting but I see his kids at her house frequently so I understand how difficult that would be with him in person.
I think your doing an amazing job growing and developing into a new person. There has been many challenges to you on this board in thinking and I've appreciated watching you evolve. You take in others perspectives and try to incorporate it while respecting your own core values. I see that isn't easy but you're traveling your own path in life and that's what's matters.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
