Progress is slow but does happen!

[PacLove]

Trying to keep a positive light on W here but also need some advice:

So dilemma here.. when W is home with D you can tell she is "stressed" out by having to take care of her, feed her, get her to bed etc. She's always felt this way but it's more pronounced now probably do to the sich and her having other things on her mind.

The challenge is, this doesn't make for a very welcoming home to come back to - if she re-lives the stress with D every-time she comes home.

I'm tempted to jump in and help, which I could totally do when I am home on her nights with D. It would relieve some of the stress both on her and D, but am also weary of it being perceived negatively or anti DB. I already do a lot for D but want to maintain some consistency for her, make sure she eats healthy and gets to bed on time.

W has made comments in the past that she feels more like her nights are obligations vs. opportunities to spend time with D.