We can still be friends

[PacLove]

Liono - sounds like you and I play similar roles in our households, I do my D9 hair, ensure she gets dressed, eats breakfast and then off to school each day. Most nights I also take care of dinner and ensure she gets to bed on time. Keep it up! they need this consistency from us Dad's. My D has been a shinning star through all this.

As for the house, full disclosure - I'm not a L but California is a communal property state, so while the intent might have been to keep things separate, I'm pretty sure everything earned/purchased since date of Marriage is considered a joint asset, including the family home, any cars and investments. As an example, my W's car is in my name but it's still considered a joint asset as we only got it this spring.

So that bonus and stock she just got? I'd recommend talking to a L and get some advice... even if she physically separates tomorrow you may have some entitlement to it as the may have been earned while you were still together.
If you haven't already it would be a good idea to do an inventory of all financial assets, while you aren't officially separated you don't necessarily want W draining $'s from he savings if you are entitled to half ;-)