Rough weekend. Father's Day my son had baseball that went until about 3:30pm. It was at this point my W came to me and said she would not be home on Monday (taking step daughter to her college) so i would either have to take the rest of the kids to her moms that night or Monday morning on the way to work. I told her since most of the Father's day was already over, I wanted to spend as much time with my kids so I'll take them in the morning. I don't think she thought I'd take this option because she got snippy and complained that I was going to wake up the kids early in the morning. Then I heard the kids complaining because of course, she had already told them they were going Sunday night to sleep over. Great communication on her part.
When we got home from baseball, she came at me angry. I just kept calm asking why I wasn't a part of the plans before her telling the kids. She said she was making the best plans for everyone. I said no, those where the best plans for you. Then she says she is going out for the so its my problem.
I took the kids to dinner, a park and then for ice cream. Had a great time. Got home around 10pm. I texted her mom to see if it was too late to drop them off at that point figuring it would be easier than the morning. She texted me a half hour later bitching that I waited until 10 to bring them over. I was in bed already and decided to just go ahead and bring them in the morning.
In the morning I texted her mom saying I would be to her in 15 mins with no response. I got to her house and had this feeling. Of course no one answered the door. I tried texting and calling my wife. No answer. She finally called me an hour or so later and first played dumb. Then said that I didn't want them to go to her moms house (a lie) and that I and the Father and I will just have to figure it out.
This meant I had to call in and miss work Monday. I took the time to take my kids bowling and miniature golfing. Ended up being a nice day. But obviously I see how my wife is going to handle this.
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16
