Here's my biggest concern. You appeared to be happy when she left, almost gleeful. You talk as though your life has been better with her absence. So, how will your feelings be impacted if she returns?
It is not a good sign, IMHO, that she wants back b/c she misses the kids.........and no mention of her H........land blaming him for her pushing her out. I don't know the laws about this, so I suggest you check.......if you don't want to let her come back. Is her name on the house?
If you can't stop her, then you better set some ground rules.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
