Had another longish email from W last night at 22.30...
In most of her emails/texts she points out what she has done/bought/received for the kids. I thinks she is probably looking for validation of how she is looking after them etc. words of appreciation have been a constant need of hers. I guess my question is if I should be acknowledging these or still pulling away and only answering direct questions.
At times she seems to be connected to the kids, does take interest in S7 and his school work. Other times though, still seems to have disconnected from them, like the part time mum works for her...
Some friends think she is reaching with these emails, others think she is just trying to be friends. Now if I want to be a lighthouse (and I'm still trying to work that out myself to be honest) should I be responding to these when there are no real direct questions....
I did want to copy the emails but can't get my post to submit on the computer...
