My H of 23 years told me he doesn't love me anymore, has never loved me,that we haven't had one good moment in all of our 23 years and that we are incompatible. He said he's giving me until the end of the month, at which point he will possibly file for divorce. After crying hysterically, begging, pleading, etc., I employed michelle's principles and wrote him a letter saying I had to let him go, if that's what he wanted. He comes home apx. every three or four days.I have no idea where he is. He never calls, etc. I have been trying to stay away from him, to act happy & distant. I go to the lake when I can but it's hard b/c we have three kids. My question is this: I have a graduation party to throw this weekend for two of my boys. Should I cancel it and go back to the lake,employing the no contact rule? I am feeling desperate, and the no-contact rule may be my only hope. But I feel the kids deserve to celebrate this milestone. Any thoughts?
