Originally Posted By: sandi2
Good job. I suggest you aim for showing no type of emotion toward your W. Just work on not projecting anger or other negative tones. Be civil.


No emotion, ok. That's harder lol!

Father's day went ok. I went and met a couple buddies for a battlefield tour. Then 2 of us went out to lunch, and I was out from 11 until around 5. Walked a couple miles during the day and came home. I felt good, but then the lack of Father's Day recognition kicked in. She didn't even mention it in passing; however, I posted a picture of my Dad and S thanking him for always being there for me and teaching me how to be a good Daddy. She "liked" it which seemed odd. I ended up having a good night. She Facetimed me around 7 and was either just crying, or about to. She said he had a little meltdown and obviously missed having me there to help. Of course, she said she was "fine" and just "tired."


She forgot to take nighttime diapers with her, and didn't have any at her place. She asked me to bring some to cover a couple days and she'd get more. Again, uncharacteristic.
Brought the diapers to school and told her again to buy some for him after school. I probably shouldn't have done that, but S needs them. I will not be doing that again. I did get to spend a few extra minutes with S, giving him hugs, kisses and telling him bye bye. Then said bye to W, and left. I didn't hear from her again until around 2 when I asked how therapy went, and she said his therapist is ecstatic with his progress. A couple hours later I get a picture of him loving a balloon and saying he had a good day in class, which have been few and far between this summer.

Coconut, I must say I didn't make the "what's she losing" list re separation, but when I think about it I know it's easier on her than it is on me.


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.