I have s14 and we had a calm Father's Day. I decided I wasn't going to discuss his recent arrest for the day, and just enjoy the sports that were on.
I did pick up d19 from work. I mentioned that I wish W would ride off into the sunset with om, and let me have s14. D19 responded that now that it is decided s14 will be in a different school district, that W will try and find a new, cheaper place where she does not need the $$$ for rent from om.
I pressed her, saying that the om's failed drug test at work looks pretty bad. D19 defended him saying it was probably just from his prescription drugs (she is nice and naďve - the only people who seem to blame their prescription drugs for a 'positive' drug test, are people on drugs!)
Then d19 told me that om is now drinking again (after his recent dui, he went on a drug to stop him from drinking). He was falling down drunk.
I feel horrible, in that W would rather live with this loser with what must be some serious emotional issues, than with me. I know, I know, keep my focus on s14 and don't let om anywhere near our son.
