My little slice of Life..

[Tofbrks]

Well as many have said mc is a big waste of time. I need input from the others out there...that may have had similar experiences.

We had our first mc seassion together ... She got right into it. My w basically stuck to her story of being done. She is not open to any type of saving , reconciling, or work to save our marriage ... None zero nada
No reasons given other than a few .. When asked about what would make her perfect marriage .. More social outings together , do what I say I'm going to do , activities together... Ect Ect basically came down to she just had no love for me .

The mc gave us work to reflect on our role in all of this and to look inward to find out own happiness ... Sounds familiar ... She had yet to come to the realization that she needs to find her own happiness not to expect it from a feeling provided by me being there... Or not

Then the real f&"k up... My pursuit of her possibility of being in or continuing any type of affair still inhabits my mind. Well I met with a pi and gave him my info. I txt my mom who has been supportive through this ... Well she thought she was txt my sister to tell her but instead txt my wife with the pi info...BD on my part ... Unintentional...

Don't think it really made much difference cause she has been constant on where she is . What wisdom can you veterans give a wounded person in this situation..

I don't think I can carry the torch for working out anymore...just too painful and it's a long shot at best... Whatever could go wrong has gone wrong...