Losing control, I need to let go (2)

[Coconut]

I think telling your kids is a personal decision, but I Don't think it would be bad to tell them. At the very least you can tell your W what you don't want her to tell them. Letting them know that mom and dad are having difficulties, and that's why dad isn't living at home probably wouldn't be bad. I definitely don't think your W lying to them is the best way to go. Kids are perceptive, they probably know more about what's going on than u think.