Thanks everyone for the posts. I know that Sandi2 and others said that in house is not ideal and does not show lots of success in reconciliation. I think the idea is that the changes are slow and gradual - therefore, not visible.

Also, the space was good for my "letting go/detachment" and she goes back to cake eating. living in her house, being with the kids - but no marriage.

Sandi2, Cadet? Any thoughts. Help


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017