The answer for your question would be to ask once. if not done put in time out. I waited too long to discipline. The longer I waited the more the anger build. If I cut it right off at the beginning I am sure to get better results.
So today I am meeting my brother and I am spinning a bit. Its a reality check as more people will know. I am not sure what he has to say about me backing away from the family for so long.
I am spinning over the limbo of the S. Of the smallest hope that it could work out. Of the summer and wanting to go on vacation with the kids. They are not getting any younger. It saddens me that I may get news that W wants to take them on vac. with out me. That we wont be together for it. And it makes me unsettled that I want to ask W about it and if she wants to go together.
What a situation to be in right now. Just spinning around stuff that I know the answer to. This may be the negative result of flirting with W at soccer. Of all the gifting exchanging that was going on. It pulls me in, setting me up for this spin and angst.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
