Sandi I don't think it's so much pressure to stay in the marriage as its a wake up call from those other than me that your self destructing... Alot of things they want to address don't have direct ties to m. Just poor life choices. So I was wondering if they could trigger a wake up call or something... Perhaps ?
She is self destructing slowly and I fear she will lose everything in the process ... Me , her kids ,family , church, job, friends,, .. Everything...does it take this to realize the poor choices you've made have been wrong and hit bottom.?


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016