SH, Still hanging in there, thanks. S11 was supposed to come spend Father's Day with me today, even though it is WW's weekend with him. Last night at 6pm he texted me that he won't be able to come :-(. I told him I was sad... Not much I can do. I guess I will find out on Wednesday what the reason was for not letting him see me on Father's Day?!? My WW has not communicated with me much on anything. Even for the summer school program I would have to register S11 first and then tell her. When she texts me she wants answers right away ("Where is S11's game tomorrow?" "Who's coaching his All-Star team?" etc. when she gets the same emails I do). I've taken to answering her after a few hours as well. It is just very annoying not to have communications from her.
Her L filed a 29 page request to my FORMER employer asking about my bonus history and all of the other officers of the corporation. My L asked him, what is the purpose of that when I am no longer working there!?! It is terrible. I sent WW a text asking her to control her lawyers, not to let them control her, as this will cost her a bundle in legal fees trying to get information that has no relevance to the D at all!
I'm sure the animosity is coming from my WW's lack of liquid funds now. She's got to come up with $1,300 a month for rent when I no longer have to give her support. Soon she will figure out what real life is without my financial lifeline.
Not sure what else to do at this point, waiting until Wednesday when I can be with my son again. His All-Star practices should start soon and I'll coordinate with the head coach on a plan. It will be fun to be able to be part of it this year and not miss most of it due to work!
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016