Good point, KML. My H is her step-dad, but they were very close. Before H started his journey, she would often consult him about things she needed a man's opinion about.

I'm going to keep this to myself.

And thanks for the advice about attorneys. My D is a sharp cookie and this isn't the first time they've had issues. I know she's taken those steps before, so I'm sure she will again, but I'll definitely say something.

Right now she's in shock and she's frightened. She has severe back issues as a result of scoliosis and is in constant pain. She's had two surgeries and is under the care of a pain management doctor. Still, she manages to go into her office everyday and run her company. Otherwise, she is not very active and spends a lot of time in bed. She's a real trooper and has supported her family very well in spite of her condition. I honestly don't know how she does it.

I really wish I could send her here, but I find myself in a position of not wanting her to see what I've been posting and knowing the details I've put on the boards about my sitch. frown But, I gave her some good resources, so hopefully she'll gain some insight from those. And, of course, I can pass along all I've learned.


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013