Sandi ss always excellent advice and viewpoint. My wife and I have a combined mc session tomorrow. I know that most say that w is not ready for mc... And am aware of them using it to give D. Trying to anticipate what other senarios could play out. I was leaning towards her telling the mc they she was done and looking for her to give the ok , since there was nothing she could do - since she says she's done.
On another front iher parents have started putting pressure on her for several bad decisions she's made... Calling her on them. She thinks I was involved but I assured I was not...and I think she agreed. Being of a family of strong faith BD ties to church . I don't know if this helps for lifting of her rebellion or fog of whatever...
They know very little of what has gone on If I the pressure from them facilitates some sort of change .. Should I provide the inlaws with a trickle of more info hey have no idea of?


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016