Hi Huddy , if your right about her fighting to the urge to come home then she has some cheek , fighting the urge ? As if she has that choice after what she's put you and the children through, after all she's said to you and been on dating sites and looking for cosmetic surgery worth 10k + , as if your just sitting there waiting for her to make the decision that you'll make a plan B because the grass wasn't greener and after the way she tried to use the kids as pawns last week when the driving was getting too much for her !!!!!!!! And now she's letting her stubbornness stop your family being happy and she couldn't even bring the children over today of all days !
All the above is obviously tongue in cheek but I'm trying to make a point , IMHO you are worth more than how your W is right now
