While I'm away, the W will have to do the cooking, getting kids ready, all the father stuff I'm normally responsible for.
Wow, what's the mother stuff she's responsible for?
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Now reading a bunch of threads here, I'm seeing "don't leave the MBR", so I'm kind of regretting it, but kind of feel like to try to do anything about it now would just be poking the bear
It would definitely poke the she-bear! I have encouraged the H of the wayward to not leave the MBR, and if they already had, to take it back. I encourage it b/c it represents a level of respect for the adult who is in charge of the home/family, which I believe should be the H (if he's living there). The problem I see in this situation is that this house is in your W's name alone. She may have legal leverage there, IDK. Have you ever checked about it?
I would not advise you to do anything without knowing where you stand legally. If she can legally kick you out.......it would not serve you well.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
