Something that I have been thinking about a lot...Post divorce and with kids, we are so vulnerable. We don't only have to protect ourselves but our children as well. I never trust going public and prefer anonymity until trust is built. I keep it completely separate, but you never know what friends of friends come up so I am always extra cautious and play it similarly to the forums.
I always like reading your posts because of the wave references. I always have nightmares of tidal waves! Just realized how many pseudo names were similar. So I just made it easier.