What should I be Doing (piecing 6)

[Coconut]

So quick update:
4/8/16 - W gave me ILYBNILWY speech
4/15/16 - WW started EA which led to kissing (3 times), EA lasted 3 weeks before I found texts and she ended it.
W is a volunteer firefighter and OM also there. My original boundary was NC, even if it meant to quit, which W really didn't want to do.

W started giving me frequent updates of whereabouts, and doing everything I asked to be transparent. I finally believed she wasn't communicating with OM, or interested in doing so, so I backed off my NC boundary and changed it to no communication.

I believed in my gut that she was out of fog and committed to MR, so I am being more talkative with her, and things are going well so far. We are doing things as a family, both sleeping in MBR (lots of intamicy now), our friendship is building and I rarely snoop or verify now, feeling confident in where we are and where we are going.