Hi Rose888, That's a good point. I will have to decide how to find a way, perhaps to have him feel safe to talk in person, or another way? My goals, - I have signed up to become a Certified Dream Coach and have started the online training. I have started looking for a new job. I have a routine I do daily, walking, journaling, meditating, and learning to control my thoughts and emotions and not break down all the time! I am learning about Internal Family Systems to start integrating the different internal 'parts' of myself to end up being a more whole and integrated person. I will ponder what else???
You have some great goals, but they all seem very serious. What are you doing for fun?
My summer fun has gotten buried under some decluttering and yard work projects that have to get done before our vacation, so I'm planning to take out my list again and recommit. A neighboring town is having a strawberry festival today, and I might take the kids to that.
Have you spoken to a lawyer about the ramifications of not signing the D papers? Will you lose the right to negotiate terms of you don't sign?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
